How The Body Keeps the Score Meets Dora Kalff’s Sandplay Therapy In recent years, many therapists and parents have turned to The Body Keeps the Score to understand why trauma does not respond easily to talk, logic, or reassurance. What is less often discussed is how closely Van der Kolk’s early chapters align with Jungian […]
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Moving Toward the Centre Not everyone comes to sand and clay therapy because something is broken. Many come because something inside them is asking to slow down, to settle, to move closer to what feels essential. Sand and clay offer such a space. In this work, there is no pressure to explain, analyse, or perform.
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A Jungian Reflection on Image, Relationship, and Symbolic Healing In Jungian psychology, personal suffering is rarely understood as an isolated event. Rather, it constellates around archetypal patterns that shape the psyche’s way of relating to self, others, and the world. One such pattern is the unmothered child archetype, which does not necessarily arise from overt
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Many parents are told that when a young child becomes overwhelmed, anxious, or angry, the best response is to encourage them to “take a deep breath.”Yet for many families, this well-meant advice simply does not work. If breathing exercises seem ineffective for your child, this does not mean your child is resistant or uncooperative. It
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Integrating Dora Kalff’s Sandplay Method with Jungian Theory and Jolande Jacobi’s Concept of Symbol Formation Rina LouwClinical Social Worker | Jungian Sandplay Therapist What Is a Symbol in Jungian Psychology? Dora Kalff’s Sandplay Therapy is grounded in the Jungian understanding that the psyche possesses an innate capacity for self-regulation and symbolic expression. Central to this
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A Jungian Reflection on Individuation, the Wounded Masculine, and Inner Authority Motto for 2026: Choosing the Self As I move into 2026, the phrase “Choosing the Self” has become more than a guiding intention. It has revealed itself as a Jungian task — one that sits at the heart of individuation, healing, and mature relationship.
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A Jungian Reflection on the Collective Unconscious and the Hero’s Journey This reflection explores how parental archetypes and the collective unconscious interact through lived experience, shaping the Hero’s Journey of individuation. Carl Jung described the collective unconscious as a deep psychological layer shared by all human beings. Within it live universal patterns — archetypes —
A Jungian Explanation for Parents “But he never watched superheroes…”So why does my child still play the hero? Many parents are surprised when their child repeatedly uses strong symbolic images in play — heroes, fighters, animals, monsters, battles, kings, or queens — especially when the parent knows the child has not been exposed to violent
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By Rina Louw, MSocSc & Jungian Sandplay Practitioner 🌱 A Personal Note: Why I Am Studying Complexes Over the past months, I have found myself returning again and again to Jung’s writings on complexes—those emotionally charged inner patterns that shape our feelings, behaviours, and relationships. As part of my professional development and my own Jungian
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By Rina Louw, Clinical Social Worker & Jungian Sandplay Therapist In Sandplay Therapy, certain elements hold a central place in the symbolic language of the psyche.Water is one of them. Adults often pour water when emotions are rising.Children reach for it when something inside needs softening, changing, or expressing.Water appears when the inner world is
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