Have you ever felt an unexplained surge of anger, jealousy, or fear and wondered where it came from? Or found yourself reacting in ways that seem out of character? These moments often point to the shadow—those hidden, unknown parts of ourselves that Carl Jung described as the unconscious aspects of the psyche. Jung offered a […]
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Introduction Tannie, my youngest child Jennifer was in tears this morning, she doesn’t want to go to school because of bullying… She says she’s not being bullied, but she’s afraid that children will start bullying her… A few of her friends have already had to change schools because of it… It breaks my heart… And
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As parents, we often emphasize the importance of speaking and being heard, but what about the equally essential skill of listening? In the dynamic journey of your child’s development, nurturing their listening abilities can be the key to unlocking a world of learning and understanding. Let’s delve into the transformative power of listening and explore
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Hey Mum and Dad, it is exam time!!! Some kids are worried they might fail, others set very high expectations for themselves. As parents, you play a crucial role in creating a supportive environment for learning and reduces stress during exam times. Here are 20 tips to guide you in supporting your primary school kids
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A Jungian Reflection on Image, Relationship, and Symbolic Healing In Jungian psychology, personal suffering is rarely understood as an isolated event. Rather, it constellates around archetypal patterns that shape the psyche’s way of relating to self, others, and the world. One such pattern is the unmothered child archetype, which does not necessarily arise from overt
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Many parents are told that when a young child becomes overwhelmed, anxious, or angry, the best response is to encourage them to “take a deep breath.”Yet for many families, this well-meant advice simply does not work. If breathing exercises seem ineffective for your child, this does not mean your child is resistant or uncooperative. It
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Integrating Dora Kalff’s Sandplay Method with Jungian Theory and Jolande Jacobi’s Concept of Symbol Formation Rina LouwClinical Social Worker | Jungian Sandplay Therapist What Is a Symbol in Jungian Psychology? Dora Kalff’s Sandplay Therapy is grounded in the Jungian understanding that the psyche possesses an innate capacity for self-regulation and symbolic expression. Central to this
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A Jungian Reflection on Individuation, the Wounded Masculine, and Inner Authority Motto for 2026: Choosing the Self As I move into 2026, the phrase “Choosing the Self” has become more than a guiding intention. It has revealed itself as a Jungian task — one that sits at the heart of individuation, healing, and mature relationship.
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A Jungian Reflection on the Collective Unconscious and the Hero’s Journey This reflection explores how parental archetypes and the collective unconscious interact through lived experience, shaping the Hero’s Journey of individuation. Carl Jung described the collective unconscious as a deep psychological layer shared by all human beings. Within it live universal patterns — archetypes —
A Jungian Explanation for Parents “But he never watched superheroes…”So why does my child still play the hero? Many parents are surprised when their child repeatedly uses strong symbolic images in play — heroes, fighters, animals, monsters, battles, kings, or queens — especially when the parent knows the child has not been exposed to violent
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By Rina Louw, MSocSc & Jungian Sandplay Practitioner 🌱 A Personal Note: Why I Am Studying Complexes Over the past months, I have found myself returning again and again to Jung’s writings on complexes—those emotionally charged inner patterns that shape our feelings, behaviours, and relationships. As part of my professional development and my own Jungian
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By Rina Louw, Clinical Social Worker & Jungian Sandplay Therapist In Sandplay Therapy, certain elements hold a central place in the symbolic language of the psyche.Water is one of them. Adults often pour water when emotions are rising.Children reach for it when something inside needs softening, changing, or expressing.Water appears when the inner world is
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We are often taught that individuation — the soul’s unfolding into its true Self — is a solitary path. Yet Jung reminds us that our deepest psychological work often happens within the intimacy of our closest relationships.Few modern films portray this truth as beautifully as Supernova (2020), the story of Sam and Tusker — two
🌱 Beyond Coping: The Call for Deep Resilience Social work is one of the most meaningful professions. Every day, social workers walk alongside children, families, and communities facing trauma and hardship. Yet behind the compassion and strength, many carry heavy emotional loads: Most training for social workers focuses on skills — managing stress, balancing caseloads,
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